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  1. Great marriages don't happen by luck or by accident. They are the result of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection, prayer, mutual respect and a rock-solid commitment between a husband and wife. (Mawlānā Ahmed Dockrat)
  2. Temporary pleasure, permanent loss - is it worth it? Al-Imām ibn al-Qayyim said: “How can he be considered an intellectual, he who sells Paradise and all that it contains, for one hour of passing pleasure...?” [Al-Fawāid | Page 45]
  3. NO EXCUSES FOR REMAINING IGNORANT Ar-Ramlī, the Shāfi'ī, rahimahullāh said: من لم يكن يعلم ذَا فليسأل ... من لم يجد ‌معلما ‌فليرحل Let him who does not know ask (the scholars) ... And let him who does not find a teacher travel (to places where he can find a teacher) [الزبد في الفقه الشافعي، دار المعرفة - بيروت، ٨]
  4. 3 - Rabi’ Awwal Rabiul awwal - From superstitions into light by Mufti Taqi Usmani - Albalagh Dates of the blessed birth and demise of Nabi sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam The Sunnah & Study of Seerah is not seasonal
  5. Lost Time Never Returns! 📘: Value of Time, Sh. 'Abdul Fattāḥ Abū Ghuddah Courtesy: siblings of ilm
  6. Some of the Righteous Predecessors used to supplicate: اللهم أعزني بطاعتك ولا تذلني بمعصيتك "O Allāh, honour me with Your obedience, & do not humiliate me with Your disobedience." [الموسوعة الفقهية ج.٣٨ ص.٢١٠]
  7. Ibn al-Qayyim said: "Be children of the hereafter and don't be children of the worldly life, for verily the child follows the mother." ● [كتاب الفوائد للإمام ابن القيم صفحة ٤٤٦]
  8. Imam Birgivi (Rahimahullah) “To be annoyed at yourself because you have been lax in worship or you realize that you have sinned is correct, so long as it is not excessive. When your anger leads you to decide to redeem yourself by good actions and extra prayers, it is commendable.”
  9. Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
  10. ‏العمل بغير إخلاص ولا اقتداء -بالنبي عليه الصلاة والسلام- كالمسافر يملأُ جرابه رملا يثقله ولا ينفعه "Offering deeds without ikhlās and without following the Prophet ﷺ is like a traveler who fills his pouch with sand, it only burdens him and brings him no benefit." ~الفوائد (٤٩)
  11. Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Forgive each other and drop the grudges between yourselves.” Source: Musnad al-Bazzār 1163 عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تَعَافُوا تَسْقُطُ الضَّغَائِنُ بَيْنَكُمْ 1163 البحر الزخار بمسند البزار
  12. On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: The gates of Paradise will be opened on Mondays and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said: Delay these two until they are reconciled; delay these two until they are reconciled. It was related by Muslim (also by Malik and Abu Dawud). عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ،أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: " تُفْتَحُ أَبْوَابُ الْجَنَّةِ يَوْمَ الِاثْنَيْنِ، وَيَوْمَ الْخَمِيسِ، فَيُغْفَرُ لِكُلِّ عَبْدٍ لَا يُشْرِكُ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا، إِلَّا رَجُلًا كَانَتْ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَخِيهِ شَحْنَاءُ، فَيُقَالُ: (1) أَنْظِرُوا (2) هَذَيْنِ حَتَّى يَصْطَلِحَا، أَنْظِرُوا هَذَيْنِ حَتَّى يَصْطَلِحَا، أَنْظِرُوا هَذَيْنِ حَتَّى يَصْطَلِحَا" رواه مسلم (وكذلك مالك وأبو داود) Reference : Hadith 20, 40 Hadith Qudsi
  13. 🌷 یہ کام نہ کریں🌷 1.....اپنی زندگی کے لمحات کو کبھی فضولیات، انتقام اور بحث و مباحثہ میں مت لگائیے۔ 2.....مال کے جمع کرنے کی ہوس کو اپنی صحت و سعادت اور نیند و راحت پر مقدم نہ کیجیے۔ 3..... دوسروں کی غلطیوں کا پیچھا اور ان کی غیبت مت کیجیے۔ اور اپنے نفس کے عیبوں کو نہ بھولیے۔ 4.....اپنے نفس کو خواہشات میں ڈبو کر نہ رکھیں کہ نفس کی ہر خواہش پوری کرتی چلی جائیں۔ 5.....اپنے قیمتی وقت کو فارغ لوگوں کے ساتھ ضائع نہ کر دیجیے اور اپنی زندگی کے لمحات کو لغو اور بے فائدہ باتوں سے بچائیے۔ 6.....اپنے جسم اور گھر کی صفائی میں غفلت نہ کیجیے کہ بدانتظامی پھیل جائے۔ 7.....کبھی کھانے پینے کی اشیاء میں حرام چیزوں کے قریب نہ جائیے۔ 8.....گزری ہوئی مصیبت، پریشانی اور غلطی کو یاد نہ کرتے رہا کریں۔ 9..... آخرت کے لیے کبھی کام نہ کرنا اور اس کو بھلا دینا ایسا کبھی نہ کیجیے اور آخرت کے واقعات سے غافل مت رہیں۔ 10..... اپنے مال کو حرام کاموں میں مت لگائیں، نیز جائز کاموں میں مال کو ضائع مت کریں اور نیکیوں میں سستی سے بچیں۔ (ماخوذ از: دنیا کی سعادت مند عورت) تحریر: ✍🏻راشد محمود عُفِیٙ عٙنْہ (سکونِ دل)
  14. 𝙊𝙉𝙀 𝙊𝙁 𝙏𝙃𝙀 𝙎𝘾𝙃𝙊𝙇𝘼𝙍𝙎 𝙎𝘼𝙄𝘿: 🍂 "𝘼𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚, 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙨. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙚𝙙𝙪𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙙𝙪𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙, 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙧𝙨. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙚."
  15. DUAS AND ADVICES FROM THE DARUL IFTAA The Darul Iftaa takes note of the “second strain” of the Covid-19 virus. Many people are ill and are facing challenging times in hospitals breathing through oxygenators and ventilators. It is our heartfelt Dua that Allah grant all those are ill and sick complete Shifaa. Aameen. Sickness is a means of sins being forgiven and attaining closeness to Allah. Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) has mentioned; "ما مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ تُصِيبُ الْمُسْلِمَ إِلاَّ كَفَّرَ اللَّهُ بِهَا عَنْهُ، حَتَّى الشَّوْكَةِ يُشَاكُهَا" "No calamity befalls a Muslim but that Allah expiates some of his sins because of it, even if it is a prick from a thorn." (Sahih al-Bukhari 5640) In one Hadith Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has mentioned; "‏ مَا يُصِيبُ الْمُسْلِمَ مِنْ نَصَبٍ وَلاَ وَصَبٍ وَلاَ هَمٍّ وَلاَ حُزْنٍ وَلاَ أَذًى وَلاَ غَمٍّ حَتَّى الشَّوْكَةِ يُشَاكُهَا، إِلاَّ كَفَّرَ اللَّهُ بِهَا مِنْ خَطَايَاهُ ‏" "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that." (Sahih al-Bukhari 5641, 5642) The Darul Iftaa advises the public to exercise full precaution and to place ones Tawakkul in Allah. We advise the public to increase Istighfar (Seek forgiveness for ones sins). Istighfar has the potential to remove calamities. Allah says; فَقُلْتُ اسْتَغْفِرُوا رَبَّكُمْ إِنَّهُ كَانَ غَفَّارًا (10) يُرْسِلِ السَّمَاءَ عَلَيْكُم مِّدْرَارًا (11) وَيُمْدِدْكُم بِأَمْوَالٍ وَبَنِينَ وَيَجْعَل لَّكُمْ جَنَّاتٍ وَيَجْعَل لَّكُمْ أَنْهَارًا _”Then I said, Ask forgiveness of your Lord, surely He is the most Forgiving. He will send down upon you the cloud, pouring down abundance of rain. And help you with wealth and sons, and make for you gardens, and make for you rivers.”(Surah Nuh: 10-11-12)_ We also advise the public to recite Ayat Kareemah as much as possible. [لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين ] This is the Dua of Yunus (Alaihis salam) whilst he was in the darkness of the belly of the fish, in the darkness of the night and in the darkness of the ocean. Allah relieved him from such compound darkness’. This Dua is effective to relieve us from the many darknesses of Covid-19. InshaAllah. Now is not the time to deny the reality of the virus which is being experienced by many and has been witnessed as clear as daylight. It is not the time to spread some assumed conspiracy behind the virus. We are living in a world of means, cause and effect. We are responsible to deal with an issue before us to the best of our ability. We do not know whether this Covid-19 is natural or manmade. Allah Alone has the absolute knowledge of the reality of the Covid-19. We are only obligated to deal with what is before us and not what is hidden from us. The next few months before Ramadhan are crucial. Make Dua that Allah keep us safe and keep our Masajid open forever. More importantly, make Dua that Allah save us from the virus of backbiting, calling names etc. that kills ones spirituality. The virus of spiritual sickness and spreading hatred and animosity is worse than the virus we are experiencing. We appeal to one and all to fear Allah and exercise restraint. We should learn the following Dua and take note of its meaning when faced with the challenges of our nafs; يا حي يا قيوم برحمتك أستغيث ، أصلح لي شأني كله ، ولا تكلني إلى نفسي طرفة عين _”O the Everlasting, O the Sustainer. I seek aid through your Mercy, rectify for me all my affairs and do not leave me to myself even for the blink of an eye.” (Al-Sunan al-Kubra: 6/147)_ It is part of controlling our nafs that we tolerate legitimate differences of opinions. We should not insist on our view being absolutely correct. My beloved teacher and Sheikh Hadhrat Mufti Ahmed Khanpoori Sahib Mudda Zilluhu offered me sound advice regarding differences of opinions. He stated that in legitimate differences of opinions, one should adopt the following attitude; "نہ مجھ پر وحی آئی ، نہ ان پر وحی آئی " _”Neither was wahi revealed upon me, nor was wahi revealed upon them.”_ May Allah save us from falling prey to our nafs and using Shariah to advance the cause of our nafs. Aameen. Mufti Ebrahim Desai Darul Iftaa Mahmudiyyah - Durban, South Africa https://daruliftaa.net
  16. Most common brushing myths: 1. We should brush first thing in the morning - No, brushing should be done after the breakfast. This cleans the food debris left in our mouth after the breakfast. 2. A larger brush cleans mouth effectively - No, a smaller brush can reach more areas and hence results in a better cleaning. 3. The whole tooth brush should be covered with toothpaste for good brushing - No, just a pea size amount on your brush is more than enough for effective cleaning. 4. Electric tooth brushes are better than manual tooth brush - Absolutely wrong! An electric brush doesn't know where you need more cleaning. With a manual brush, you can clean up yourself with manual pressures 5. Medicated toothpastes ( like medicare & sensodyne) can be used as a regular toothpaste - These toothpastes have chemicals that are to relieve some dental problems. 6. More aggressive brushing means more clean teeth - Again, absolutely wrong! Brushing should be done vertically with minimum pressure. This makes both teeth and gums healthy.
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