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"fiqh Of Love"


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1-Great relationships don't just happen; they are created. You have to work at it.


2-If your job takes all of your best energy, your marriage will suffer.


3-One of the greatest gifts you can give your spouse is your own happiness.


4-It is possible to love and hate someone at the same time.


5-When you complain about your spouse to your friends, remember that their feedback can be distorted.


6-The only rules in your marriage are those you both choose to agree with.


7-It is not conflict that destroys marriage; it is the cold, smoldering resentment that you hold for a long time.


8-It's not what you've got, it's what you do with what you have.


9-If you think you are too good for your spouse, think again.


10-Growing up in a happy household doesn't ensure a happy marriage, or vice versa.


11-It's never too late to repair damaged trust.


12-The real issue is usually not the one you are arguing about.


13-Love isn't just a feeling; it is expressed through our actions.


14-Expectations set us up for disappointment and resentment.


15-Arguments cannot be avoided, but destructive arguments can be avoided.


16-One of the greatest gifts you can give your spouse is focused attention.


17-Even people with happy marriages sometimes worry that they married the wrong person.


18-Your spouse cannot rescue you from unhappiness, but they can help you rescue yourself.


19-The cost of a lie is far greater than any advantage you gain from speaking it.


20-Your opinion is not necessarily the truth.


21-Trust takes years to establish and moments to destroy.


22-Guilt-tripping won't get you what you really want.


23-Don't neglect your friends.


24-If you think, "You are not the person I married," you are probably right.


25-Resisting the temptation to prove your point will win you a lot of points.


26-Generosity of spirit is the foundation of a good marriage.


27-If your spouse is being defensive, you might be giving them reasons to be like that.


28-Marriage isn't 50/50; it's 100/100.


29-You can pay now or pay later, but the later you pay, the more interest and penalties you acquire.


30-Marriage requires sacrifice, but your benefits outweigh your costs.


31-Forgiveness isn't a one-time event; it's a continuous process.


32-Accepting the challenges of marriage will shape you into a better person.


33-Creating a marriage is like launching a rocket: once it clears the pull of gravity, it takes much less energy to sustain the flight.


34-A successful marriage has more to do with how you deal with your current reality than with what you've experienced in the past.


35-Don't keep feelings of gratitude to yourself.


36-There is no greater eloquence than the silence of real listening.


37-One of the greatest questions to ask your spouse is "How best can I love you?"


38-Marriage can stay fresh over time.


39-Assumptions are fine as long as you check them before acting upon them.


40-Intention may not be the only thing, but it is the most important thing.


41-Good sex won't make your marriage, but it'll help.


42-Privacy won't hurt your marriage, but secrecy will.


43-Possessiveness and jealousy are born out of fear, not love.


44-Authenticity is contagious and habit-forming.


45-If your spouse thinks something is important, then it is.


46-Marriage never outgrows the need for romance.


47-The sparkle of a new relationship is always temporary.


48-There is violence in silence when it's used as a weapon.


49-It's better to focus on what you can do to make things right, then what your partner did to make things wrong.


50-If you think marriage counseling is too expensive, try divorce.

EISLAM

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